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leftbehind. · (This post was last modified: 10-31-2011 04:29 AM by leftbehind..)

(10-27-2011 05:25 PM)Stephanie Wrote:
(10-26-2011 02:15 AM)leftbehind. Wrote: Tbh, I don't particularly like 'gossip' I like more mature conversations and such.

& me and my partner are trying for a baby, (long story - my fertility is in question & i so badly want a child myself that i just feel i need to try).

so, yeah - i think i qualify LOL

how is everyone?

just got up for work.
i'm so bad at getting up though, like, seriously.
I was awake around 6, fell back to sleep, my alarm went off at 7 and i snoozed it till 8 .. LOL

I only went for the interview for this job yesterday and they rang me back a couple of hours later offering me the job - gotta go in today to start my crb check and stuff.
exciting!

What kind of job is it? That sounds awesome. I love when jobs call u quickly after interviews and tell u so ur not stuck having to worry for a week or two. I'm HORRIBLE at getting up for school. My bf comes and gets me and I have my alarm set for 7:45 but I end up sleeping sometimes till 8 or 8:06 ....and my bf gets so mad if he leaves to head home and shower only to find me dragging my butt to get my cereal and it's 8:45 when we're supposed to start class at 9 lol.

Aww that's really awesome ur wanting to have a baby. Hopefully it'll be something I'll be able to do in a few years. I'm still pretty young so I'm not hurrying to but my bf is 26 so he's a little more willing to agree that a baby would be amazing no matter the timing. I just want to finish college and have my nursing job before I try to ....but I want whatever to happen to just happen. If it turns out ur not able to have a baby on ur own...will you adopt?

Thanks

Care Assistant in an end of life nursing home.
The people there are so ill, it's heartbreaking.
It's where they go when they know they're going to die and a lot of them are basically waiting to die.
I've always wanted to do something in care though! Smile

Aw, wicked - yeah, I guess whatever happens, happens Smile

So, you're 'not trying, not preventing' I guess? Smile

that's cool!

Uhm, If I can't - my partner can (yeah, my partner is a she LOL)
So, we have both of us - I've always wanted to carry a child though.
But If I don't - we can still have children of our own Smile

But adoption is something I would consider thoroughly - being able to give a child a home it's something that's beautiful & i'd be honoured to do that Smile

But because my partner and I are the same sex, I don't think we're allowed to adopt .. =/

Happy Halloween btw Smile

**Stephanie** · 11-02-2011, 09:33 PM

(10-31-2011 04:28 AM)leftbehind. Wrote:
(10-27-2011 05:25 PM)Stephanie Wrote:
(10-26-2011 02:15 AM)leftbehind. Wrote: Tbh, I don't particularly like 'gossip' I like more mature conversations and such.

& me and my partner are trying for a baby, (long story - my fertility is in question & i so badly want a child myself that i just feel i need to try).

so, yeah - i think i qualify LOL

how is everyone?

just got up for work.
i'm so bad at getting up though, like, seriously.
I was awake around 6, fell back to sleep, my alarm went off at 7 and i snoozed it till 8 .. LOL

I only went for the interview for this job yesterday and they rang me back a couple of hours later offering me the job - gotta go in today to start my crb check and stuff.
exciting!

What kind of job is it? That sounds awesome. I love when jobs call u quickly after interviews and tell u so ur not stuck having to worry for a week or two. I'm HORRIBLE at getting up for school. My bf comes and gets me and I have my alarm set for 7:45 but I end up sleeping sometimes till 8 or 8:06 ....and my bf gets so mad if he leaves to head home and shower only to find me dragging my butt to get my cereal and it's 8:45 when we're supposed to start class at 9 lol.

Aww that's really awesome ur wanting to have a baby. Hopefully it'll be something I'll be able to do in a few years. I'm still pretty young so I'm not hurrying to but my bf is 26 so he's a little more willing to agree that a baby would be amazing no matter the timing. I just want to finish college and have my nursing job before I try to ....but I want whatever to happen to just happen. If it turns out ur not able to have a baby on ur own...will you adopt?

Thanks

Care Assistant in an end of life nursing home.
The people there are so ill, it's heartbreaking.
It's where they go when they know they're going to die and a lot of them are basically waiting to die.
I've always wanted to do something in care though!

Aw, wicked - yeah, I guess whatever happens, happens
So, you're 'not trying, not preventing' I guess? that's cool!

Uhm, If I can't - my partner can (yeah, my partner is a she LOL)
So, we have both of us - I've always wanted to carry a child though.
But If I don't - we can still have children of our own
But adoption is something I would consider thoroughly - being able to give a child a home it's something that's beautiful & i'd be honoured to do that
But because my partner and I are the same sex, I don't think we're allowed to adopt .. =/

Happy Halloween btw

Yeah, I'm going go college to become an RN so healthcare is where I'm at too. It's rewarding :]

Well....I am taking birth control but ugh long story, I don't know if it's making me very happy. I'm moody and when I'm on my placebo green pills and then go back on my orange hormone ones I get sick to my stomach for the first week. Now my lady week is turning into like a 3 week non stop :[ I HATE that women are the ones who have to take the pill in order to protect themselves till they are ready for a baby just because their husband/bf/fiance hates to lol. I can't be the only one out there who has that problem. I'm on Aviane or something of a generic brand. Supposed to be great but so far I feel like a fat grump haha.

Yeah I kinda figured you were with a girl :] I didn't know u couldn't adopt of u were same sex....seems a bit unfair but that's the world for you. Nothing when ur in the "minority" is fair :/

leftbehind. · 11-03-2011, 06:15 AM

(11-02-2011 09:33 PM)Stephanie Wrote: Yeah, I'm going go college to become an RN so healthcare is where I'm at too. It's rewarding :]

Well....I am taking birth control but ugh long story, I don't know if it's making me very happy. I'm moody and when I'm on my placebo green pills and then go back on my orange hormone ones I get sick to my stomach for the first week. Now my lady week is turning into like a 3 week non stop :[ I HATE that women are the ones who have to take the pill in order to protect themselves till they are ready for a baby just because their husband/bf/fiance hates to lol. I can't be the only one out there who has that problem. I'm on Aviane or something of a generic brand. Supposed to be great but so far I feel like a fat grump haha.

Yeah I kinda figured you were with a girl :] I didn't know u couldn't adopt of u were same sex....seems a bit unfair but that's the world for you. Nothing when ur in the "minority" is fair :/

Oh wicked. You're a carer at heart then, like me? Smile

Oh no - that sounds so sucky! I'm the same though, anything hormonal & I'm crap. But then I have other problems which lead to that, so maybe it's not just the birth control. Idk.
But sure, you should be able to get something to help you? Ask your doctor Smile

Idk, laws and stuff are sticky... I don't know can happen and what can't.
All I know is that we should have the same 'laws' for straight people. At the end of the day we're still human beings, I don't see how the fact that you like the same sex should change anything.

But, we're not together anymore.
Literally broke up, like, last night.
But we've not been getting on properly for such a long time.
I feel like she was more of a 'best friend' than a girlfriend, she stopped connecting with me emotionally and wouldn't give me what I need: cuddles, kisses, emotional support (especially with me going through such a lot healthwise right now) so we parted ways. I'm hoping we can still be friends but it's early days.
Sucks that I'm currently moving out - gotta go and get some more stuff soon.
It was the best thing - still hurts like crazy Sad

**Stephanie** · 11-03-2011, 05:20 PM

(11-03-2011 06:15 AM)leftbehind. Wrote:
(11-02-2011 09:33 PM)Stephanie Wrote: Yeah, I'm going go college to become an RN so healthcare is where I'm at too. It's rewarding :]

Well....I am taking birth control but ugh long story, I don't know if it's making me very happy. I'm moody and when I'm on my placebo green pills and then go back on my orange hormone ones I get sick to my stomach for the first week. Now my lady week is turning into like a 3 week non stop :[ I HATE that women are the ones who have to take the pill in order to protect themselves till they are ready for a baby just because their husband/bf/fiance hates to lol. I can't be the only one out there who has that problem. I'm on Aviane or something of a generic brand. Supposed to be great but so far I feel like a fat grump haha.

Yeah I kinda figured you were with a girl :] I didn't know u couldn't adopt of u were same sex....seems a bit unfair but that's the world for you. Nothing when ur in the "minority" is fair :/

Oh wicked. You're a carer at heart then, like me?

Oh no - that sounds so sucky! I'm the same though, anything hormonal & I'm crap. But then I have other problems which lead to that, so maybe it's not just the birth control. Idk.
But sure, you should be able to get something to help you? Ask your doctor

Idk, laws and stuff are sticky... I don't know can happen and what can't.
All I know is that we should have the same 'laws' for straight people. At the end of the day we're still human beings, I don't see how the fact that you like the same sex should change anything.

But, we're not together anymore.
Literally broke up, like, last night.
But we've not been getting on properly for such a long time.
I feel like she was more of a 'best friend' than a girlfriend, she stopped connecting with me emotionally and wouldn't give me what I need: cuddles, kisses, emotional support (especially with me going through such a lot healthwise right now) so we parted ways. I'm hoping we can still be friends but it's early days.
Sucks that I'm currently moving out - gotta go and get some more stuff soon.
It was the best thing - still hurts like crazy

:[ I'm so sorry. Breakups are super hard even if you know it's for the best.

Peace · 11-05-2011, 06:46 PM

another day in parent hood, my son is now fighting back about everything, arggggg, so stressful, he has trimesters coming up, so tiring and wearing me out. Besides that, it's getting cooler in Florida and I'm actually able to garden and get Christmas decorations out.

**Stephanie** · 11-05-2011, 06:55 PM

(11-05-2011 06:46 PM)Peace Wrote: another day in parent hood, my son is now fighting back about everything, arggggg, so stressful, he has trimesters coming up, so tiring and wearing me out. Besides that, it's getting cooler in Florida and I'm actually able to garden and get Christmas decorations out.

It's FREEZING in washington right now. I feel my lips getting sore from the cold so I stay inside a lot lol. Right now it's sunny enough but it's far from warm.

Peace · 11-05-2011, 07:19 PM

I can't believe how the weather is weird this year. All of up north already had snow and it's now just November. I'm hoping cooler weather stays b/c I hate the heat.

**Stephanie** · 11-06-2011, 12:19 AM

(11-05-2011 07:19 PM)Peace Wrote: I can't believe how the weather is weird this year. All of up north already had snow and it's now just November. I'm hoping cooler weather stays b/c I hate the heat.

It was weird this past summer. We had cool weather basically all the time and it didn't even start to warm up until the end of August and then stayed warm till probably last week. Very odd

Peace · 11-08-2011, 04:33 PM

Well my son will now have exams all next week, very tiring and wearing and then more tests and then report card. I'm happy but it's hard. We will see how he does.

**Stephanie** · 11-10-2011, 03:17 AM

I can officially post in here and be "of age" haha