i don't want to lose her.

[ciao kayslee.]

edit; i know this is kinda late, but i found out she wasn't even cutting at all.
she told me it was a "cry for love & attention" because nobody cared about her.
i feel like an idiot, but i'm kinda peeved at her. & her mom went along with it
the whole time because she felt her daughter "deserved more attention."
if she wanted it, she could've gotten it a different way. anyways, i haven't
spoken to her since :/ whatever. it's her life, she can deal with it the way she wants to.

[ciao kayslee.]

bump.

[luciddreams]

dont doubt yourself, you totally did the right thing.

that mom has problems. you spilled her daughter's "secret"?! please, you probably saved her life by telling people. and its not like you were like "hey everyone at school my friend cuts herself alksdjfka", you told people that you and her trust, and people that could help get your friend some help.

your friend might be mad for a while, but she'll eventually see that you did the right thing. id talk to her and tell her that.

[lost in stereo.]

you absolutely did the right thing. just
give your friend some time and space,
she'll figure out how much you helped
her eventually.

[nadia.]

wow you definitely did the right thing!
you're friend will realize that you were just
concerned and wanted to help her and
she'll be happy about what you did.
you should definitely have a talk with her
though because she probably needs to
just let it all out. i hope everything turns
out good.

[maxwell demon.]

what the hell? you told her coach?
as if telling the counsellor wasn't bad enough.
it definatley doesn't apply to everyone,
but most people with depression or similar hate talking to consellours.
we don't like opening up to people we don't even know.
trust me, i would know.
how about you could've been there for her, instead of telling people who don't even have any emotional connection with ehr whatsoever.

[luciddreams]

^oof, dont listen to that.

really, you did the right thing. she was obviously so depressed and upset that she wasnt thinking clearly, and she needed someone amazing like you to step in and let someone know. just you talking about it to her would have put a huge burden on the both of you.

[zefron501]

yeah u did the right thing
maby u should sit her down and talk
to her and tell her that u were just
trying to help and just let her know
that your there for her.

[anotherday]

you did do the right thing
so dont feel bad about what you did.
you were just trying to help her, and
she might soon realize that..and thank you for it.
she probably is sad that you told her secret..but it was
the right thing to do. just wait some time before
you try to bring it up again..she needs some time to think.

[contagious.]

what the hell? you told her coach?
as if telling the counsellor wasn't bad enough.
it definatley doesn't apply to everyone,
but most people with depression or similar hate talking to consellours.
we don't like opening up to people we don't even know.
trust me, i would know.
how about you could've been there for her, instead of telling people who don't even have any emotional connection with ehr whatsoever.
i have to agree.

[saris]

you really did the right thing. i don't know your age, but you seem
to be in school still, so you are no age to have a big problem like this on your shoulders.
it was the wisest thing to do, and when everything has "calmed down", your friend is gonna
understand that you did the best thing.

[muffin_girl.]

you did the right thing.
give her some time and space, you;ll figuer it out eventually.
-
all the others above me who said she did the wrong thing- imagine to yourslf, if your long time bff would cut, what would you do?
or
if you'd cut, you'd rather to have your bestfriend talking to someone about you- trying to help you!
it means she cares about you.
:]

[rose garden.]

^ i agree.

[flywithme.]

what the hell? you told her coach?
as if telling the counsellor wasn't bad enough.
it definatley doesn't apply to everyone,
but most people with depression or similar hate talking to consellours.
we don't like opening up to people we don't even know.
trust me, i would know.
how about you could've been there for her, instead of telling people who don't even have any emotional connection with ehr whatsoever.

I agree, you did the right thing by trying to help her but you should have just told her mom or dad or someone she feels she can open up too.
She'll hopefully come around eventually, but you should write her a note explaining why you told the people you told, its a good why to vent and if she reads it she knows how you feel.
good luck(=

[ciao kayslee.]

i know this is kinda late, but i found out she wasn't even cutting at all.
she told me it was a "cry for love & attention" because nobody cared about her.
i feel like an idiot, but i'm kinda peeved at her. & her mom went along with it
the whole time because she felt her daughter "deserved more attention."
if she wanted it, she could've gotten it a different way. anyways, i haven't
spoken to her since :/ whatever. it's her life, she can deal with it the way she wants to.

[JDO]

^woah.
i have a friend who actuallly is cutting, its horrible to see.
yet she has an attention problem too.

[bad romance.]

you did the right thing.