what should i do about him?

[zanessa.xo]

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i now i have my answer, so i feel that this thread is no longer needed :P

[zanessa.xo]

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[broooke.]

i've been in this situation before.
all my friends kept telling me one of my boy friends liked me.
but to avoid it being awkward or anything,
i just stayed friendly with him & just acted normal.
and he never told me himself he liked me,
and unless that boy does that then just carry on being friends.
& if he tries to tell you he likes you, then you just let him down easily.
but cross that bridge if it comes to it,
don't make a big deal out of something that might blow over (:

[Jordann]

if you don't like him you don't like him.
i mean if you've already given him a chance you just have to set him straight and make him realize it's not gunna happen. you can't force yourself to like somebody.

[zanessa.xo]

okayy .
thanks for the advice guys =]

[luciddreams]

ugh, im in the same sit. right now. im not sure what to do. imma post my own thread though.

[InnocentlyClumsy]

I'm horrible at this cause the same guy has liked me since we were in the 3rd grade.
We're now seniors in HS and yeah I don't see him that way, and he's my neighbor and we do stuff together sometimes. He got a gf just recently but he's always talking to me and stuff so idk reallly if I'm happy about it or not. Like honestly I don't like him but it's nice that he likes me....he's a nice guy so idc. I actually flirt with him when I'm lonely, how horrible is that to lead the poor guy on...but still he's been my friend who loves me a LOT like since forever so it's not a big deal. he kinda realized that I'm a flirt and that it's never gonna change.

[zanessa.xo]

thanks.
and yeah you said you flirt with him when your lonely ?
haha
thats kinda the same as me.
i dont mean to. it just kinda happens.
i dont want to stop talking to him though,
because you might think im weird or something,
but this is the only guy who has like ever talked to me
like this, so i want him to keep talking to me like he does,
but i kinda feel bad knowing that he really likes me and i dont like him.

idk if that made sense, but whatever. XD

[zanessa.xo]

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[zanessa.xo]

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[diana bear]

you can stay friends with him and not lead him on.
just every time he makes some sort of sign of affection, tell him to piss off.

[zanessa.xo]

lmao!

idk why but i actually started laughing when
i read that. :P

but thanks :)

[lost in stereo.]

be friends, there's no harm in that. if he
likes you so much, give him the benifit
of just being friends. then you can set
him straight with him and let him know
exactly how you feel about him.

[zanessafanalways]

ok well there is this boy i no
at times he acts like he likes me and at times he acts like he don't
he's not in any of my classes, i only see him after school
i don't know what to do
PLEASE HELP ME? ask questions, anything just help me

[zelo]

keep your distance, he will eventually get over you.
and yeah, it may hurt him if you tell him the truth,
but it's best. tell him you want to stay friends though.
who knows, maybe you'll fall for him one day! :]

i've been through that before, it sucked. everyone thought i liked this guy back when i didn't. i led him on :/ i would be so happy talking to him, but like i didn't feel a ~love connection; i just wanted to be friends, lol. like he would always tell me he liked me, and then i would be like, "education first!" & he would be like, "i'm jk, my friend's the one who likes you." but now he has a girl, and doesn't talk to me anymore. when in reality, i kinda miss when he used to lecture me about love and all that junk. i feel bad tbh, but it was best so he could go on with his life. it was for the better. he doesn't need me. hahah.

[zanessafanalways]

thnx for the advice any one else?