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all i wanted
01-24-2009, 12:07 AM
okay so;around december my bff got her first boyfriend.
and of course i am completely estatic for her and the guy
is a total sweetheart but ever since they started dating we barely talk
and im always the last person to know whats going on
and when i do talk to her she mainly talks about her bf which i dont mind
but when i tell her stuff or atleast try to she only replies back with yeah
or lol. and it just makes me so sad because she's the only one that i've
ever been able to really talk to and discuss things with.
and its been especially hard for me this year it being my freshman year;
with all the stress of homework,trying to meet new people but im so shy &
ive already lost one bestfriend so i dont think i can handle losing another one
and she sits right next to me at lunch-the only class we have together
and she never hardly talks to me maybe like 4 words the whole lunch time.
she talks to her bf and other friend which i guess i can understand
maybe im just being too selfish?
i've just been so down lately;i have nobody to talk to like i used to
i only have 1 other bff which we only get to talk and hangout on weekends which is occasionally;and we have one class together
but other than that i have nobody

any advice?
sorry its so long.

ELISETARD
01-24-2009, 12:12 AM
try talking to her about it?

all i wanted
01-24-2009, 12:20 AM
but i dont want her to take it the wrong way
and think that im jealous of her bf or something
you know?
:/

ELISETARD
01-24-2009, 12:09 PM
yeah, but what else is there to do?
you don't want to lose her, right?

across the universe.
01-24-2009, 12:15 PM
you should tell her just that.
& she should understand, if my
friend told me that i wouldn't think
she's jealous. because well,
she's my friend.