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TAS.
01-18-2009, 10:04 AM
Okay so im really really scared at the moment.
I realised a week ago that i really like this guy.
Too bad hes my best friends boyfriend : (
so i told my other best friend and she was mad at me for it and thought i was going to try and steal him away from my other mate.
Then she found out and is okay with it.
She said she didnt mind aslong as i didnt do anything about it
Which im not going to cause shes the bestest mate ever.
A few nights ago she told me she felt intimidated by me and then i found out she was thinking about breaking up with him cause of it.
I felt bad and told her she didnt need to do that.
My other best friend is really touchy about it.
Whenever i try to ask about what i should do she yells at me and tells me to just stay away from the guy and that i need to get over it.
Also, my friend and the guy sometimes get a little to intimate right infront of me and it hurts because she knows shes doing it and then apologizes later.
So now ive just started staying away from them when they're together and now he thinks im mad at him and wont talk to me : (

I dont know what to do!!
Please HELP!

2bmrsefron
01-21-2009, 07:57 PM
Wow.
I'd say that you should sit down with your friend (the one with the boyfriend) and be like, look, here's how it is:
And just tell her that it hurts her when she purposefully does stuff with her bf in front of you.

No guarantees that she'll forgive you or anything.

Thats a really tough situation to be in, so i'll be praying for you(:

TAS.
01-23-2009, 04:33 PM
thanks : )
but she knows she's doing it cause she apologizes afterwards but then she does it again.
even though now she's stopped apologizing or even mentioning the subject at all.
and now the guys acting wierd around me like im gonna try something on.
he said to me that he wants his gf to get in a bit.ch fight with me for a laugh??
whats that about? : /

across the universe.
01-23-2009, 04:36 PM
wow the dude sounds like a jerk
why would he say that? it's lame.
it's a tough situation & i really really hope
you get over him. idk what else to tell you.

TAS.
01-23-2009, 04:44 PM
me too :(
i think i have a problem with falling for the wrong guys.
well, im going to town with her tomorrow and were going to his after : /
im quite scared.