gaah my jerk dad rant.

[Catastrophic]

um this stuff is really embarrassing to say but, i need somewhere to vent and get help so here goes...

basically my dad has been dating this woman i don't like at all and after only A FEW MONTHS they got engaged! i know. and i don't even like her, she's only after what little money he does have..

so we had dinner today. and he actually showed up. so i'm happy that he showed up instead of calling me from somewhere making excuses as to why he's NOT with me. and he basically tells me that they're having a destination wedding and i'm not invited. he didn't straight up say that, but the bottom line is, i'm no going to my own father's wedding. it's not like want to go, but isn't it common courtesy to invite your own daughter if you're gettng married? but my soon-to-be-step-siblings ARE invited. he's known them like a FEW months and me for ALMOST SIXTEEN YEARS. i guess i'm just jealous becaue he's fathering them and has never been there for me. :/

not to mention i don't want new stepsiblings. :/ or a stepmother..

and it just sucks because whenever i actually try to have a relationship with him he's not interested. i know everyone will say to tell him how much he's hurt me and bablahblah but whenever i put out effort to reconnect or just talk he denies me. i'm mostly writing this to vent my anger towards him right now.

i'm going over the edge. i'm so mad and jealous and upset and confused about this and relieved the holidays are FINALLY over and all this crp. i can't take any more of this bs.

[emily.]

well i dont know your situation or anything ;
but to me,
I would try to connect with your soon-to-be stemmom.
he obviously loves her alot,
and seeing that you don't probably hurts him.
he needs love in his life regardless,
and he knows his daughter will always love him,
so i would try to get along with her,
because once you start treating her as a (step) mother,
then maybe then he'll step up and take the father position.

im just saying, idk your situation or anything,
but thats just what i would do.
its worth a try.
(:
good luck !

[Catastrophic]

well i dont know your situation or anything ;
but to me,
I would try to connect with your soon-to-be stemmom.
he obviously loves her alot,
and seeing that you don't probably hurts him.
he needs love in his life regardless,
and he knows his daughter will always love him,
so i would try to get along with her,
because once you start treating her as a (step) mother,
then maybe then he'll step up and take the father position.

im just saying, idk your situation or anything,
but thats just what i would do.
its worth a try.
(:
good luck !

ahh my situation is kinda complicated.
well basically my dad and mom split up when i was 7 and i lived with my mom
and never really saw my dad except for occasionally meeting up on holidays...
then last february my mom died from cancer and i went to live with my dad.
but things were really strained and i ended up having to leave after only a month. and since then i've lived with my grandparents, and right now i'm living with my aunt and uncle & their kids..
but i've been trying to reconnect with my dad because it feels like that's all i have. but he just denies me.

and i met my soon-to-be-stepmom&stepsibs a while ago. we don't get along. but thank you for the advice. because idk it kinda opened my eyes like maybe we don't get along because i'm purposely making myself hard to get along with...

[Mama1975]

Wow - it sounds like you have been through a lot over the past couple of years....I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother, and the disappointment and hurt that you feel from your Father.

I have no advice, I just wanted to say you have been through a LOT of changes over the past little while and it must feel overwhelming sometimes.

Take care...
Mandy

[maxwell demon.]

treat him like shxxit back. [:

[bencch.]

aww. i feel sorry for you .
if you want to go to your fathers wed. plead and beg for an invite.
and if your so angry at him which i would be . like shes_my_winona said. sorry dont know your name ><.

goodluck (: