become more outgoing, and less shy

[csws.]

any tips on how to break out of the shy stage and become more outgoing ?

i have recently found myself and i think its time to become more outgoing and step into the light, start conversations with more people, hang out and really HAVE a life.

aha.

[Cindy.]

i'm in the same boat =/

[alyssa leigh.]

i used to be really shy.
then one day, i just started talking to people.
it took a little bit of time before i could do it.
but i just told myself i was going to say
something to them, and i did.
so maybe, if you see someone in the halls
at school that you know, be like 'hey, what's up?'
or maybe talk about something going on at the school.

[Great Expectations]

i'm suuuuuper shy
but i'm also really outgoing,
i take a lot of like performance
classes and it helps me ~breakout.

[beeee.]

im really really shy

[zero gravity.]

hm i am kind of in that situation too.
i'm really shy sometimes. i want to find a way to be more social.

[ninaaa.]

dido with me. :/

[marisasaurus]

haha. im the most loudest un shy person you will probablly ever meet.
just be yourself. thats seriously key.
im really random and will go up to people randomly and just ask them how their day is going.
like if i really want to talk to somebody, lets say the person who sits behind me in math.
after a math exam or whatever i sometimes say "dude that test was hard, what do you think?"
just be friendlyy.
yeah, im pretty lame. :]

[____Brenda.]

get a job that involves a lot of interaction and communication with people.

go out with a bunch of your friends,
i mean they're bound to have friends that you don't know and could get to know. (:

[annaa.]

im SUPER SUPER SUPER shy when im in public.
around people i dont know
or don't know very well.
but when im with my friends im crazy.
like seriously i get sooo hyper. im really outgoing around them.
but that's because i know them.
and when there's new people there.
that i don't know. im still outgoing.
cause im with my friends.
but yeah
i have the same problem.
i can be super super shy around people.

[mandy.loves.you]

Oh, goodness.
I was probably one of the shyest people ever. no joke.
xD

I don't know what happened. I'm still quite shy and I don't like public speaking [talking in front of classes and such] but I'm much much more outgoing than I was.
If I want to talk to someone, I'll usually compliment them on something.
or if I notice something around them that could spark up conversation, I'll just be like "oh hey.."

Yeah, yeah. I know.
I'm not much help.

[G.i.G.z]

i was super shy once
but now im more outgoing
just come up with a conversation
with some people that u mostly dont know
like my friend goes up to people
and says hi and they reply
baha this kid give a handshake that u hit ur shoulders with xD
but yea be yourself
start conversations and ect
((im still kinda shy :3 but more outgoing then b4))
baha im not that much help
iam i??

[anotherday]

im SUPER SUPER SUPER shy when im in public.
around people i dont know
or don't know very well.
but when im with my friends im crazy.
like seriously i get sooo hyper. im really outgoing around them.
but that's because i know them.
and when there's new people there.
that i don't know. im still outgoing.
cause im with my friends.
but yeah
i have the same problem.
i can be super super shy around people.
thats EXACTLY me!

[maxwell demon.]

get drunk, high or have heaps and heaps of sugar.

[beeee.]

im SUPER SUPER SUPER shy when im in public.
around people i dont know
or don't know very well.
but when im with my friends im crazy.
like seriously i get sooo hyper. im really outgoing around them.
but that's because i know them.
and when there's new people there.
that i don't know. im still outgoing.
cause im with my friends.
but yeah
i have the same problem.
i can be super super shy around people.
Thatss mee.

[white demon]

try and talk to more people in school, i know its hard because i used to be the same way. up until i was 10 i didn't really speak that much
but if you get involved with a certain group of people
maybe they can help you.

[omgxcullen]

Just throw yourself into the situation that forces you to come out of your shell
I applied for a retail job where I interact with customers all day.
I also am taking a public speaking class so my grade depends on connection with the audience as well as many other aspects

[AFRICA]

I enjoy being shy to be honest, I hate people in general lmfao.

its hard to come out of the shyness, i've tried. I always ended up seeming weird or whatever.

But idk what to do >.>

[brandnewlove.]

im SUPER SUPER SUPER shy when im in public.
around people i dont know
or don't know very well.
but when im with my friends im crazy.
like seriously i get sooo hyper. im really outgoing around them.
but that's because i know them.
and when there's new people there.
that i don't know. im still outgoing.
cause im with my friends.
but yeah
i have the same problem.
i can be super super shy around people.

TWINS! :]
haha, yeah i'm just like you.

[vegas.]

get drunk, high or have heaps and heaps of sugar.


haha blaise.
too true.

[zero.]

i'm like kind of confident, but quite shy also.
that doesn't make sense hahaha.

i'm like ... chandler in friends.
i'm good with my friends, talkative and funny.
and when i'm with new people and uncomfortable.
i find myself cracking jokes and saying stupid things to break the ice.
=/

[katieee]

join band.


BECOME A BANDO.
(:

[PartyintheUSA.]

im SUPER SUPER SUPER shy when im in public.
around people i dont know
or don't know very well.
but when im with my friends im crazy.
like seriously i get sooo hyper. im really outgoing around them.
but that's because i know them.
and when there's new people there.
that i don't know. im still outgoing.
cause im with my friends.
but yeah
i have the same problem.
i can be super super shy around people.
haha thats pretty much me also.
gah i hate it.
i hate speacking infront of class.
idk y though. when u think about
it it seems not bad. wen u do it its not
bad but everytime the teacher says
were presenting a project it just
makes me freak out. or when she
calls names to go to the board.
i always look away when they start looking
around the room for people to call on.
but everytime they call on me.
lol its really lame.
my best friend was the same way but now shes
the total opposite. i whish i could
just do what she does but i cant
bring myself to it. :/

[tabeykat]

I'm not as shy as I use to be. I had help from some friends from work. they showed me its ok to be who you are. They just prodded me until I broke out of my shell. I have severe anxiety attacks and panic attacks in public but no so bad now. I eventually just started to not care what other people think, and just do or say what ever and forget about the nasty ones. That really is all I have been able to do. Just me being on here is a testament about how much my shyness has gone away. A year ago you would have never seen me on here.

[VICTORIA.]

dude, i feeel youuu.

i am supershy.

[csws.]

aha thanks (:

ohhh ahaha i hate people in general also.

like im outgoing online but in life im so fuccking shy.
and i hate talking to people i dont know
i suck at starting conversations.

[annaa.]

haha thats pretty much me also.
gah i hate it.
i hate speacking infront of class.
idk y though. when u think about
it it seems not bad. wen u do it its not
bad but everytime the teacher says
were presenting a project it just
makes me freak out. or when she
calls names to go to the board.
i always look away when they start looking
around the room for people to call on.
but everytime they call on me.
lol its really lame.
my best friend was the same way but now shes
the total opposite. i whish i could
just do what she does but i cant
bring myself to it. :/

ohh my god.
i hate that.
i HATE presenting/ talking in front of the class.
they always say you gotta make eye contact with the audience.
and im just like, no.
then i get even more nervous knowing everyones staring at me.
i hate doing that.

[csws.]

i hateeee going up in front of a class

[down to earth]

um, tobecome more outgoing, DO STUFF. yeup.